>gigantic cuts at 125 and 1k
>boost at 31, 500, and anything over 4k
That has to be the strangest eq I've ever seen. Cutting 125 kills the punch of the bass, cutting 1k kills the mids of guitars, and that top end just makes the drum cymbals sound brittle and shrill. At least in my experience.
In my opinion, every eq should be tailored to the listening device; open ears, closed ears, stereo and sub, monitors, earbuds, bone conduction, etc etc. Audio engineers mix and master certain genres in a certain way to fit the accustomed to sound of that genre; that is, they eq things in a particular way to begin with, so I don't believe that you should eq based on genre. But then again I almost exclusively listen to metal, so my preferences probably don't really overlap with yours.
Pic related is my settings. I like a very minimal adjustment to flat, with a little boost at 125, 500, and 8k, with graduations up and down around them.
The other two knobs are a low shelf bass boost (everything under 300 gets brought up a bit) and a high shelf boost (over 4k comes up).